Should I Lower My Standards to Find a Relationship?
By Lucy | Category: Relationship
I've always had really high standards when it comes to dating. After some failed relationships, I've told myself I won't settle unless I find someone who can offer a mutually healthy relationship. But as I’ve gotten older, I’m starting to feel frustrated. My friends have lowered their standards and started dating people who don’t meet their usual criteria. I’m struggling with whether I should do the same, especially when there’s a guy I feel could be right for me, except that he's a pathological liar and sleeps around. I don't want to be just another person on his list, but I feel like having a physical relationship might be what I need right now. Is it better to compromise on my standards or stick to them? How do I know what’s healthy for me?
What Should I Do If My Partner Never Initiates Sex?
By Meera | Category: Sexual_life
I feel like I always have to initiate sex in my relationship, and my partner never does. What should I do about it?
How to Improve Sexual Communication with Your Partner?
By Anu | Category: Sexual_life
How can I improve communication about my sexual desires with my partner, especially when it feels awkward or uncomfortable to talk about?
How Can I Learn More About Kink While I’m Underage?
By Rahul | Category: Sexual_life
I’m 17 and really interested in learning more about kink, but I’m having trouble finding age-appropriate resources. What can I do to explore this subject safely and honestly?
What Should I Do if My Partner Isn’t Into Kink?
By Jex | Category: Sexual_life
I’m into kink, but my partner isn’t. How do I approach this topic with them, and is it possible to have a fulfilling relationship if our sexual interests don’t align?
How Can I Safely Explore Kink as a Beginner?
By Alex | Category: Sexual_life
I’m new to kink and want to explore it in a safe way. What are some things I should keep in mind, especially if I’m just starting to understand my desires?
Friends with Benefits: How Does It Work?
By John | Category: Relationship
What exactly does "friends with benefits" mean? Does it only refer to casual intercourse, or can it include things like cuddling, holding hands, or just being close without sex? I’m thinking of asking a very close friend if they want to be friends with benefits. But I’m only comfortable with cuddling or holding hands, maybe more later if we both feel ready. How should I ask them? Do I need to specify what activities I feel comfortable with, or is it implied? I don’t want them to think I only want sex. How do I know if it’s the right time to ask?