I Slept with 400 Men to Teach Them Real Intimacy” – UK Sex Surrogate Kaly Miller Shares Her Story

Adultsvilla Exclusive | June 22, 2025 | London

By Nimcy Manu

LONDON, UK – From a busy mum of four to one of the UK’s most sought-after sex surrogates, 52-year-old Kaly Miller has helped transform the sex lives of hundreds of men — including a Hollywood actor — through deeply intimate and therapeutic experiences that go far beyond the bedroom.

Kaly, based in London, has spent over 15 years guiding clients through physical and emotional intimacy. As a certified sex surrogate and intimacy expert, she’s worked with over 400 clients, supporting men and women in overcoming fears of physical touch, performance anxiety, and sexual trauma.

“I don’t keep count, but it’s definitely between 300 and 400 people I’ve worked with physically,” Kaly tells Adultsvilla. “I’ve helped virgins experience their first time, guided couples into open relationships, and supported abuse survivors in reclaiming pleasure.”

🔹 From Burnout to Sexual Healing

Originally from São Paulo, Brazil, Kaly moved to London for university. She married, built a successful events company, and raised four children. But burnout and dissatisfaction led her to change paths completely.

After qualifying as a masseuse, she stumbled upon a surrogate partner therapy course in 2013. It cost her £3,000 and, at first, shocked her with its frank inclusion of sexual intimacy as part of therapy. “I didn’t know if I could go through with it,” she admits.

Her first client, a 60-year-old virgin, changed her perspective. “He said his brother had just passed, and he didn’t want to die without knowing what love felt like,” Kaly recalls. That was the moment she realized the power and purpose behind her new role.

🔹 What a Sex Surrogate Really Does

Kaly’s work is not about instant gratification. “It’s a process,” she explains. “We begin with simple touch – holding hands, hugging – then gradually progress to more intimate acts. Full sex usually comes after trust and consent are firmly established.”

Sessions range from £250 per hour to £1,250 for full-day sessions. Clients are required to provide recent STI tests, sign detailed consent forms, and are often coached over at least 3 sessions before intimacy takes place. “I ensure that no one forms a romantic attachment — this is therapy, not a relationship,” she emphasizes.

Her clients include men facing issues like erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, autism-related intimacy challenges, and even trauma survivors. Women often seek help for orgasm difficulty or post-birth sexual fears. For female clients ready to explore deeper, Kaly refers them to trusted male surrogates.

🔹 Breaking Taboos, One Session at a Time

Kaly’s clinic, called The Naked Room, is known for its professional and respectful approach. She also won the Somatic Sexologist of the Year award at the 2022 Sexual Freedom Awards, cheered on by her children and supportive parents.

“I’ve helped so many people find confidence, joy, and healing through touch and communication. It’s a privilege,” she says.

Despite occasional skepticism, her work continues to grow in demand — and respect.

🔹 Changing Lives, One Orgasm at a Time

One memorable moment, Kaly shares, involved a man seeing a vagina for the first time. “He said, ‘It’s marvellous! I love the colour and the texture.’ I’ve had sex for 30 years and never received a compliment like that!”

Another client — a young man with autism — was so deeply impacted that his grateful father told Kaly: “Thank you for letting him experience life as a man, beyond his challenges.”

Kaly has no plans of stopping anytime soon. “I meditate, stay fit, and always show up for my clients with full presence. At 52, I’m in my prime — physically and emotionally.”