Reigniting the Spark: How to Reconnect Physically and Emotionally in Your Marriage
By Sheeba | Category: Wellness
I love my husband deeply, but lately, I’ve noticed that our physical intimacy has decreased. We’re still affectionate, but sex just doesn’t seem to be as frequent or exciting as it used to be. Is this normal? How can we reconnect and reignite that spark in our marriage?
Six Months Into Marriage and No Baby: Why Is Everyone in a Hurry?
By Bhawna | Category: Health
On the first night of my marriage, just as we were settling in, my aunt-in-law knocked and said, “Child, it’s your Suhagraat, don’t delay. Babua is immature, the responsibility is yours now.” Then came constant pressure—“Give us a grandchild soon!” Guests, relatives, even distant ones started asking. I felt embarrassed, then irritated. After six months, I brought up the idea of meeting a doctor. My husband dismissed it, saying we weren’t ready financially. I told him, “You’re out all day, but I’m the one who faces these daily questions.” Even my in-laws began pressuring me, but eventually my wise father-in-law stepped in with some reality and wisdom. We finally decided to wait, and two years later, we welcomed our daughter—happily and responsibly. Why does society push women so quickly into motherhood? Isn’t it okay to wait? How do we deal with this pressure as a couple?
I’m Almost 28, Still Single, No Kids — Am I Falling Behind in Life?
By Lakshmi | Category: Relationship
I’m 27, about to turn 28, and I’m still single. I’ve never been married, I don’t have kids, and right now, I don’t even have any prospects. I feel like I’m watching everyone else move forward with their lives—getting married, starting families—and I’m stuck. I can’t stop thinking about it, and I’m starting to feel hopeless. Is something wrong with me? What do I do?
I think I'm masturbating too much. How can I regain control without quitting completely?
By Alex | Category: Relationship
I've been masturbating for a few years now. Sometimes once a week, sometimes daily — even more on some days. Lately, I feel like it's becoming a habit I don’t fully control. I find myself doing it when I’m bored, stressed, or even just out of impulse. It sometimes affects my energy, focus, and even sleep. I feel guilty afterward and promise myself to stop — but the cycle repeats. I read online that masturbation is harmful or that quitting it completely (like doing "nofap") is the only way to take control. But is that true? Is masturbating every day really bad? Should I stop completely? Or is there a healthier way to manage this? I want to be more focused in life, stop feeling like I’m wasting time or energy, and rebuild discipline — without shaming myself or feeling like something is wrong with me.
How Can I Move Toward Kissing and Physical Intimacy in My Relationship?
By Irfan | Category: Relationship
Hi, I’m Irfan from Hyderabad. I’m 21 years old, doing my master’s. I’ve been in a relationship with a girl for the past two years. She’s 18 now and just started her bachelor’s degree. We’re emotionally close, and we talk every single day. We’ve met a few times, and we’ve held hands, but nothing beyond that. I care deeply about her and respect her a lot — that’s why I’ve never pushed for anything physical. But I’m now starting to feel a stronger physical attraction toward her. I want to take the next step — things like kissing, cuddling, and eventually even exploring sex — but I don’t want to scare her, rush her, or ruin what we have. Most of my friends are physically involved with their girlfriends. While I know every relationship is different, I wonder how I can approach the topic of physical intimacy with my girlfriend in a respectful and comfortable way. How do I bring this up without making her feel awkward or pressured? How do I know if she is ready or even thinking about it? And if she’s not ready, how should I handle it without hurting our bond?
Do Indian Husbands Really Allow Their Wives to Have Extramarital Affairs?
By Sakshi | Category: Relationship
Is it true that some Indian husbands are open to the idea of their wives having extramarital affairs, and if so, what are the underlying reasons and dynamics at play?
I'm in my late 30s and my husband mentioned something called "cuckolding." I'm from India and not familiar with this. What does it mean and how might it affect our relationship?
By Reshma | Category: Sexual_life
I'm married to a wonderful man and we’ve been together for over a decade. Lately, he’s been dropping hints about something he finds exciting — he called it cuckolding. I had never even heard that word before, and honestly, it left me confused and a bit uncomfortable. He says it’s a fantasy that many couples explore and that he’d love to see me with another man while he watches or knows about it. We’ve always had a pretty normal and private sex life, and this seems way outside my comfort zone. What does this mean? Why would a husband want something like this? Could this help or harm our marriage? We’re from India and topics like this are rarely ever talked about. Please help me understand.
How Do I Start Teaching My Kids About Sex and Relationships?
By Alexa | Category: Wellness
I’ve been homeschooling my children for 4 years now. While we’ve had open discussions about puberty, sex, relationships, and other topics, I’ve never formally taught a class on the subject. I want to make sure my 12 and 14-year-old children get a complete and inclusive education about sex, but I’m overwhelmed by how much there is to cover. Abstinence-only resources seem outdated, and nothing even mentions LGBTQ+ topics. Do you have any advice on where to start and how to approach this subject?
Does Dry Humping Count as Being "Sexually Active"?
By Merin | Category: Health
I've dry humped before and even orgasmed, but we've always kept our underwear and bras on. Neither of us has touched each other "down there" over clothing. A doctor recently asked if I was sexually active. Does my experience with dry humping mean I have to say "yes" to that question now?
How Can I Overcome My Fear of Sexual Intimacy After Past Trauma?
By Reenu | Category: Wellness
I’m a 30-year-old woman who was sexually abused as a child. Since then, I’ve had a hard time with intimacy. I’ve been in a few relationships, but I can’t bring myself to let my partners in completely. I get anxious, and sometimes I shut down completely when things get too intimate. I really want to be able to connect with someone on a deeper level, but I don’t know how to overcome this fear of intimacy. What should I do? How can I start to heal and move forward?