💖 Younger Partners & Orgasms May Help Ease Menopause Symptoms, Says New Study

By Nimcy Manu

23 June 2025, Bangalore-India

Many women going through menopause often struggle with frustrating symptoms like dryness, pain, tiredness, and loss of desire. While some try medication, hormone therapy, or natural remedies, new research shows that intimacy—with a younger partner or through orgasm—might be one of the most powerful ways to feel better.

🧪 The Study That’s Changing the Conversation

A new study by London Metropolitan University, funded by Womanizer’s Pleasure Fund, looked at 150 women who were peri-menopausal or post-menopausal (this means either approaching menopause or already through it).

The researchers wanted to see if age-gap relationships made any difference in how women experienced menopause. And the results were surprising!

💑 Women With Younger Partners Reported Fewer Menopause Symptoms

The study found that women who were in a relationship with a partner at least seven years younger reported:

54% fewer menopause-related symptoms, especially in areas related to sex and physical discomfort.

They also scored 84% higher in sexual function tests—especially in desire and arousal.

These women answered detailed questions about their sexual health using a scientific tool called the Female Sexual Function Index. This included topics like sexual desire, lubrication, orgasms, and satisfaction.

So, what does this mean? Being with a younger partner might boost your confidence, reignite your desire, and possibly reduce some of those annoying menopause symptoms.

🤝 Not Many Older Women Explore Age-Gap Relationships

Interestingly, while the benefits are clear, not many women have tried these relationships.

In another survey by Womanizer (this time with over 1,000 Australian women):

Only 8.3% of women had ever been in a relationship where they were older than their partner.

Just 2.4% said they were interested in trying it.

This shows that while the idea of dating younger might help health-wise, many women still hold back, possibly due to social pressure or personal hesitation.

💌 Open Relationships Also Show Benefits

Women in consensual non-monogamous relationships (where both partners agree to see others) reported:

More orgasms

Fewer menopause symptoms

This suggests that sexual freedom and emotional openness may also help women feel better during menopause—mentally and physically.

💦 Orgasm Therapy—With or Without a Partner

Another part of the study focused on orgasms, and the results were clear:

Women who had orgasms (even alone) experienced up to 36% less severe menopause symptoms.

Those who used toys felt even better—especially with issues like:

Tiredness

Sleep problems

Mood swings

Vaginal discomfort

Urinary issues

One big finding: women who used toys reported 59% fewer problems with tiredness and sleep and had better mental wellbeing.

🧠 Why This Matters

The researchers believe more research is needed—but one thing is already clear:

Prioritizing your own sexual satisfaction and pleasure is not just good for your mood—it could help your body cope with menopause too.

They also found that sexual satisfaction was strongly linked to lower pain and discomfort in the vulva and vagina, less pain during sex, fewer urinary problems, and a stronger sense of sexual interest.

💬 Final Thoughts

If you’re experiencing symptoms of menopause and feel like you’ve tried everything—consider turning to intimacy, joy, and self-pleasure as part of your wellness routine.

Whether it’s through exploring a new relationship, using a toy, or simply reconnecting with your own desires, it might be exactly what your body needs.

Because when it comes to pleasure and health—sometimes the best medicine is already within you.

💌 A Gentle Note to Husbands and Partners

Menopause is not just a phase your partner is going through—it’s a major physical and emotional shift that can deeply affect her confidence, comfort, and connection. As a loving partner, your support can make all the difference.

Here’s how you can help:

💞 Be Her Safe Space

Be patient. Be kind. Let her know that you’re there, not to "fix" things, but to listen, comfort, and rediscover intimacy together.

🎁 Consider a Thoughtful Surprise

A small gift can speak volumes. Whether it’s a soft massage oil, a beautiful piece of lingerie, or even a high-quality sex toy—you’re not just giving her a product, you’re giving her permission to explore, enjoy, and reconnect with her body.

 Tip: Many women find new joy in solo play during this stage of life. A well-chosen toy can spark both curiosity and confidence.

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Support Her Desires

If she shows interest in something new—be it intimacy, conversations, or even new relationship dynamics—keep an open heart and mind. Encourage her to explore what makes her feel alive, feminine, and desired again.

Remember:

Desire doesn’t end with menopause.

With your support, it can grow stronger, deeper, and more meaningful.

Let her feel seen. Let her feel sexy. And above all, let her know you still choose her—every single day.