Six Months Into Marriage and No Baby: Why Is Everyone in a Hurry?
By Bhawna | Category: Health
On the first night of my marriage, just as we were settling in, my aunt-in-law knocked and said, “Child, it’s your Suhagraat, don’t delay. Babua is immature, the responsibility is yours now.” Then came constant pressure—“Give us a grandchild soon!” Guests, relatives, even distant ones started asking. I felt embarrassed, then irritated. After six months, I brought up the idea of meeting a doctor. My husband dismissed it, saying we weren’t ready financially. I told him, “You’re out all day, but I’m the one who faces these daily questions.” Even my in-laws began pressuring me, but eventually my wise father-in-law stepped in with some reality and wisdom. We finally decided to wait, and two years later, we welcomed our daughter—happily and responsibly. Why does society push women so quickly into motherhood? Isn’t it okay to wait? How do we deal with this pressure as a couple?
Does Dry Humping Count as Being "Sexually Active"?
By Merin | Category: Health
I've dry humped before and even orgasmed, but we've always kept our underwear and bras on. Neither of us has touched each other "down there" over clothing. A doctor recently asked if I was sexually active. Does my experience with dry humping mean I have to say "yes" to that question now?