I’m Almost 28, Still Single, No Kids — Am I Falling Behind in Life?
By Lakshmi | Category: Relationship
I’m 27, about to turn 28, and I’m still single. I’ve never been married, I don’t have kids, and right now, I don’t even have any prospects. I feel like I’m watching everyone else move forward with their lives—getting married, starting families—and I’m stuck. I can’t stop thinking about it, and I’m starting to feel hopeless. Is something wrong with me? What do I do?
I think I'm masturbating too much. How can I regain control without quitting completely?
By Alex | Category: Relationship
I've been masturbating for a few years now. Sometimes once a week, sometimes daily — even more on some days. Lately, I feel like it's becoming a habit I don’t fully control. I find myself doing it when I’m bored, stressed, or even just out of impulse. It sometimes affects my energy, focus, and even sleep. I feel guilty afterward and promise myself to stop — but the cycle repeats. I read online that masturbation is harmful or that quitting it completely (like doing "nofap") is the only way to take control. But is that true? Is masturbating every day really bad? Should I stop completely? Or is there a healthier way to manage this? I want to be more focused in life, stop feeling like I’m wasting time or energy, and rebuild discipline — without shaming myself or feeling like something is wrong with me.
How Can I Move Toward Kissing and Physical Intimacy in My Relationship?
By Irfan | Category: Relationship
Hi, I’m Irfan from Hyderabad. I’m 21 years old, doing my master’s. I’ve been in a relationship with a girl for the past two years. She’s 18 now and just started her bachelor’s degree. We’re emotionally close, and we talk every single day. We’ve met a few times, and we’ve held hands, but nothing beyond that. I care deeply about her and respect her a lot — that’s why I’ve never pushed for anything physical. But I’m now starting to feel a stronger physical attraction toward her. I want to take the next step — things like kissing, cuddling, and eventually even exploring sex — but I don’t want to scare her, rush her, or ruin what we have. Most of my friends are physically involved with their girlfriends. While I know every relationship is different, I wonder how I can approach the topic of physical intimacy with my girlfriend in a respectful and comfortable way. How do I bring this up without making her feel awkward or pressured? How do I know if she is ready or even thinking about it? And if she’s not ready, how should I handle it without hurting our bond?
Do Indian Husbands Really Allow Their Wives to Have Extramarital Affairs?
By Sakshi | Category: Relationship
Is it true that some Indian husbands are open to the idea of their wives having extramarital affairs, and if so, what are the underlying reasons and dynamics at play?
Should I Lower My Standards to Find a Relationship?
By Lucy | Category: Relationship
I've always had really high standards when it comes to dating. After some failed relationships, I've told myself I won't settle unless I find someone who can offer a mutually healthy relationship. But as I’ve gotten older, I’m starting to feel frustrated. My friends have lowered their standards and started dating people who don’t meet their usual criteria. I’m struggling with whether I should do the same, especially when there’s a guy I feel could be right for me, except that he's a pathological liar and sleeps around. I don't want to be just another person on his list, but I feel like having a physical relationship might be what I need right now. Is it better to compromise on my standards or stick to them? How do I know what’s healthy for me?
Friends with Benefits: How Does It Work?
By John | Category: Relationship
What exactly does "friends with benefits" mean? Does it only refer to casual intercourse, or can it include things like cuddling, holding hands, or just being close without sex? I’m thinking of asking a very close friend if they want to be friends with benefits. But I’m only comfortable with cuddling or holding hands, maybe more later if we both feel ready. How should I ask them? Do I need to specify what activities I feel comfortable with, or is it implied? I don’t want them to think I only want sex. How do I know if it’s the right time to ask?